Working with Parents and Families and Blended Families:
It is hard to be a parent. Children come with a variety of gifts, skills, and difficulties. It often seems like, “oh, no….now what.” While children may present a “cool” or “in control” demeanor, they desperately need the support of a strong parenting team. Through understanding the needs of the children and the expectations of each parent, the family will outline the trends that have been established and define the areas which need work.
This is more difficult with divorced or blended families, but the value of “being on the same page” goes a long way. Routine and consistency are paramount. Each household must look into its own values, recognizing that for children transition and adjustment are difficult. When a change in the family occurs or a problem arises, the family must find a way to adjust. This requires consideration, compromise, and accommodation.